I'm about to be 17 and most girls around my age have either already had sex or are experimenting with it. I've never had sex nor have I have an ever had an interest in it, but I think I have have a hormonal dysfunction or something like that because shouldn't I be slight interested in the contrary sex? I don't mean to make it appear like I'm lesbian. I just want to know if it's normal to not be interested in sex or any type of sexual connection with people. If I haven't made myself clear yet, my question simply put is, Is it normal to be 17 and never get sexual aroused?
My reason for asking this impeach was to find out if maybe the hormones in birth control, will make me more open to sexual activity with my lover. He really wants sex and I would like to be sexually aroused while being intimate with him not just laying there pretending to be into it. I hope that makes it more clear what I'm asking.
You could be asexual. It is a type of sexuality. Don't be worried unless it really bothers you. I think when you receive older you will figure it out. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality Hope this helps! Good luck!
doing sex and feeling approximately it are 2 different things. it is absolutely normal if u haven't done sex at this age but it is not normal whether u r not feeling about it but ur impeach itself telling that u think about it that means u r normal so just relax
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No, it's not normal to be 17 and never be sexually aroused... although it's normal (but still unusual) to only be aroused once or twice a week at that age.
Whether they're mentally aware of it or not, most girls in their teens get physically aroused several times a day. Even little children do... they just don't know what it is.
Maybe your body's just never known how good (and how healthy for you) arousal and orgasm are. You don't have to have sex to receive that, you know.
I don't suppose you've ever been permitted to learn the truth approximately all the people that masturbate... but it might interest you to know that infants masturbate (often to orgasm several times a day whether they do it at all, and - rarely - fetuses masturbate to orgasm even during the last month or two before they're born)... that by the age of 12, almost 1/3 of all girls have already been masturbating to orgasm at least occasionally for half their lives or more... that at age 15 it's 2/3 of them who are doing it regularly (many of those have been doing it several times a day, every day, for years)... or that by the age of 20, more than 80 of women are doing the same - regardless of if they've ever had intercourse. Even very old people do it. Your mom does it, and probably so does your grandmother whether she's still alive and healthy.
Everyone can (and everyone deserves to) enjoy the pleasure of orgasm, including everyone who chooses to enjoy it alone instead of (or in addition to) having sex with someone else.
Masturbation is having sex with the only person you'll ever meet who knows precisely what you feel and what you like, even if that changes every second.
I can't tell you every step there is to have an orgasm... every girl and woman is different, and it would take way longer for me to type it all out than it would for you to give yourself one... but one thing you can do to find out is check out these webpages:
http://www.clitical.com/female the pages all the way through, and try some of the matters suggested. Take your time (it might take a whole afternoon the first time), and just enjoy learning what feels best for you. Sooner or later, you'll have an orgasm, and they get better each time whether you're one of those lucky girls who can have them again and again.
An orgasm is all the things you feel and all the things that happen with your body at the zenith of sexual arousal and pleasure. It's a reflex we're all born with (just like knee jerks and sneezes) that our bodies have in response to sexual stimulation. You will definitely know when you have one. There's nothing else anywhere in human experience that feels that way.
It can take a girl or woman anywhere from a few seconds to a couple of hours to arrive orgasm. Both of these are pretty unusual but perfectly normal, and anything in between is just fine... and most can get there in much less than 10 minutes when they masturbate.
Just before orgasm, you might have a feeling a bit like you have to pee, but it's not quite the same, and when your orgasm first happens, there'll be a very strong (sometimes intense and powerful warm and sometimes tingly feeling that spreads from your clitoris to your vagina and then through your whole lower body. Then very quickly your clitoris, your vagina, your crotch muscles and your butt-hole will squeeze and pulse a few times while that feeling spreads all over you. During all this, your heart will beat very quickly, your toes will probably curl, you might feel like you need to hold your breath or like you have to breathe really fast, your body will want to tense up and might jerk or shake or shiver, and you might make some noises (grunts, gasps, groans or cries) that you can't really control. You might squirt or ejaculate a lot of fluid from your urethra (don't worry, it's not pee). While all of this is going on, the physical and emotional pleasure that you'll feel everywhere at the same time is just about the best feeling a human body can possibly have. Your body is producing more of its feel good chemicals and hormones at this time than during any other natural experience, and your nervous system's pleasure centres are cranked up to their maximum.
you might feel or do above isn't always going to happen... some orgasms are much less overwhelming than just very pleasureable. that feeling becomes more mild and starts to go away (after perhaps 5 to 20 seconds), your whole body will start to relax, your skin will flush pinker (especially over your chest) and you might feel sort of like having a nap... or like just lying there and letting your intellect float... or even like doing it again (and again... etc) right absent.
It's not often, but it can happen sometimes that there'll be no interruption at all between several orgasms in a row, and it can feel like one unmarried orgasm... intense physical pleasure and whole-body tension and release that can final anywhere from 30 or 40 seconds to several minutes.
Go correct ahead... have all the fun you like with it and don't worry about it. Masturbating is normal and healthy, and learning what pleases you sexually is good for you... particularly because you'll know what to tell (better yet, to show) your guy approximately how to please you when you eventually decide you're ready to have sex.