Need response from the ladies... When should I tell?

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ML
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I'm a 33 male who unfortunately has to take sex pill such as viagra, cialis, etc. A few years ago I hurt myself really poor while playing basketball and since then my erections have not been the same. I feel embarassed to talk abuot this to a woman but at some point I would have to convey with her approximately this. So my question is, when should I release this type of information to woman? Should it be a year into a relationship, 2 years, correct absent, after a few dates, etc? When is the right time or should I never say anything and just keep it a secret?


bfg625jy
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i think you should tell her after a few dates...

if a woman really likes you, then she will like you for who you are
if you tell them correct when you meet them it may seem like you are trying to scare them absent.

so whether a woman likes you, then you should tell her

Rasputin
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Is she going to notice? I think you should tell her at some point. Its the result of an injury, you have nothing to be ashamed of.

Rachael
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i wouldn't put a time on it but i would treat it on an individual basis. You should tell a girl when the relationship becomes serious and you feel comfortable sharing that with her.

melissamp99
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I would say before you become sexual with the woman you are dating. It does not have to be right absent! Like moment date stuff! But before the two of you go down the intimacy road! Really why should a woman care whether you have this problem as long as you can still receive it up with help and still have kids.

Nancy
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I think she would figure it out eventually. I believe it's wrong to keep medical information from women you are going to be intimate with, if it be something like this or an Std or anything. I certainly don't think it's necessary for you to disclose this on a first date, but definitely when you think matters are moving in the direction of an intimate relationship and you care for this person a lot. Please do say something. Just tell her what you told us. She has a right to know.

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