Is it possible to get an erection over porn not your partner if you are suffering from Erectile dysfunction?

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Lucy
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My partner is able to (sometimes he says) get and sustain an erection over porn but not myself.
He says he is still very much in love with me and finds me appealing, but he is blaming it on stress. He can still receive it up' over me but he fails to sustain it for the whole time during intercourse.
We did have a poor experience when I had a poor asthma attack during intercourse, he know says he worries just in case it happens again.
Please, answer this maturely - i.e. don't say it's because he's having an affair, this is a serious question.

So do you think this is possible?
it possible to receive an erection over porn not your partner whether you are suffering from Erectile dysfunction? do you think he's suffering from Erectile dysfunction?
only in our early twenties!! Thanks.
He's definitely Not homosexual.


Joe Mama
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I bet he is watching gay porn.

dr ashley proct...
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Does he have a lot of homosexual friends, or a lot male friends. He is gay I am afraid to tell you

Ford_Craney
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Honestly, it could be one of 3 matters:
1.The porn has made you not enough of a turn on and steady sex just doesn't do it for him now
2.He could be having an affair
3.He is gay
I think number 1 is the most likely.Then again it could be a combination of 2 or all 3.

R-UNuts
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Seriously..If you, in the bed, naked, mess around with him hand-ly or orally and he doesn't get up then he has a prob. If he does receive on with you with these type activities and has a quick climax then you can usually receive him to go once, then get him up again and it will last longer for certain. Try a viagara perhaps that will help. not sure, hope you try some different things. Tell him to forget the asthma attack porbs.

sulemanep
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It could be down to a number of things, stress, pressure etc. Just because he's looking at porn and able to get an erection with it doesn't mean he finds you any less attractive. When he's looking at porn he's by himself - it's something he can do without added stress, pressure - it's a form of tension relief. I'm not saying he gets more stressed when he's around you, but this is his way of getting away from all stress in general. When men have sex they're generally thinking of how to please their girlfriend/wife/whoever and so if he's feeling stressed out or tired he may not want to have sex. Not because he doesn't want to be with you, but because he doesn't want to dissapoint you. The stuff he's doing by himself is nothing against you, that's his way of relieving stress, and he can do it by himself because he only has himself to worry about.

Hope that makse sense.

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